Where Are You? : Revisited

You. Guys. This week is an unprecedented week around our home. It’s “week before graduation party”. My firstborn baby is GRADUATING! Say what?!?!?!?

If you’re a mama who has already walked through this process a time or two, you know the kind of week I’m in. If you’re still a mama to littles and haven’t reached this stage yet, think, first birthday party stress times a million. (ok, sometimes I have a problem with exaggerating….) Anyways. It’s a crazy busy week around here and so, instead of writing new content for my whimsical space, I’m blessing you ūüôā with a couple articles from my very first two months of blogging. From clear back in 2013.

The following article was originally posted on September 4, 2013. Enjoy!


I read something this morning that rocked. my. world.

God (calling to Adam): Where are you?

(That’s Genesis 3:9 for those that have to have a reference.)

Where are you?¬†God is ready to hang with Adam – a usual routine – but Adam doesn’t show up. God is omnipresent and all-knowing so He knows the answer to every question that He asks. Yet He still asks questions. I think it’s more about our answer sometimes than His question. But this question¬†‘where are you?’¬†shows a lot about the Creator’s fathering approach.

The thing that rocked me this morning is that the question is¬†Where are you?¬†not¬†What have you done?. Seriously. With God, it’s a WHERE not a WHAT. That is sooooo not the way it works in our world most of the time. I hear myself talking to my kids when I happen upon a mess,¬†what¬†have you done?¬†Not often is it:¬†Where are you? What’s your heart in this?¬†but¬†What?¬†

Behavior becomes the primary focus – not the relationship. Actions instead of heart understanding. Ugh. So NOT the way it should be. Maybe people wouldn’t be going off the deep end every day in our world if we all asked¬†where¬†instead of¬†what¬†a little more often. ¬†The media does an amazing job at presenting us with the¬†what¬†– not usually do we know the¬†where. ¬†Man, we can trash a person we don’t even know and get passionate when their¬†what¬†isn’t behavior we approve of. ¬†What if we left all that alone and focused on knowing the¬†where¬†in the relationships closest to us, the God-destined heart connections.

I think the reason God can ask¬†where¬†instead of¬†what¬†is because, with Jesus, the¬†what¬†is really pretty obsolete. Jesus died for the¬†what. His blood absolutely 100% covers the¬†what. If God can get to the¬†where, the¬†what… well it takes care of itself. I want to ditch the¬†what¬†when I know someone cares about the¬†where.

So here’s to the¬†where. The¬†where¬†is so much more fun anyways. The¬†where¬†is you and me together. Walking in the cool of the day. And you and me, walking in the cool of the day, is very, very whimsy.

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